"She just sat there, arms crossed staring at me.

I felt so disrespected." - Rose

When someone has their arms crossed, it means they are defensive and not listening... right?

What about when they are looking away when you are talking?

Or doodling when you are trying to make a point?

Respect.

Disrespect.

Being over-sensitive is a trademark of the typical emotional eater.

I was constantly feeling less than, not enough, and taken for granted.

Until finally, I learned a simple communication key.

3 keys actually.

We each have different LEAD SYSTEMS! 👊

1. Some of us are more visual:

• colors are important, things often match

• need to look right / good before going places

• see things differently

• look at people first, then listen / feel

• often doodle when fully listening

2. Some of us are more auditory:

sounds are important / remembered

need things loud or quiet

hear things differently

listen to people first, then look / feel

often have their arms crossed when listening

3. Some of us are more kinesthetic:

feelings are very important

need to have a good feeling before acting

feel things differently

have a gut feeling about people first, then see / hear

often fidget or walk around when listening

We are NOT all the same - so stop thinking you are a mind reader - you are NOT!

Once we understand our LEAD SYSTEM and what it means, we no longer take ourselves or other so seriously.

Take the test - and let me know which of the 3 are your lead system.

TAKE THE TEST